Myths

1) Most rapes occur by strangers. (False)
Based on statistics, more than 7 of every 10 victims know their attacker. More often than not; a family member, neighbor, or a coworker, can be the ones who hurt you.

2) I am safe during the day. (False)
Although the majority of the rapes do occur at night, daytime is not a preventative for rape. You must be on your guard at all times.

3) If I report it, my attacker will come after me. (False)
Reporting this will, in almost all cases, will keep your attacker away. They have instilled fear in you and they are counting on that fear to prevent you from reporting them. This is one reason why so many rapes go unreported. There are always exceptions but you must follow through and report this crime as soon as possible (Refer to the section on "If You Are Raped").

Facts you should know!

1) Depending on the study you read, 39 to 68% of all rapes go unreported. Please review our "If You Are Raped" section for more information.

2) Even though laws have become enforceable and evidence gathering is more defined, most rapes still go unreported.

3) Children who are molested are more likely to become molesters when they grow up.

4) The only way to fight rape and child sexual abuse is through education along with tougher laws and giving people an avenue to seek help.

5) Only 10% of all men who have been abused will even admit it. Even less men will seek help for their pain. Since the majority of abusers and rapists are men, we seem to find a way to help the abused men receive the help they need so they do not become child molesters or rapists.

Please refer to our education page for tips on how you or someone you know can get the help needed. Going unchecked, this crime will only continue.